At the end of my training day, I return home, have dinner and get ready for another very important part of my routine: study and transmissions. I like to share time with you, transmit, talk and create special moments through my live shows.
At the end of my training day, I return home, have dinner and get ready for another very important part of my routine: study and transmissions. I like to share time with you, transmit, talk and create special moments through my live shows.
PASCUA HAS ARRIVED, AND WE ARE SURE IF YOU HAS BEEN A GOOD BOY, YOUR EGGS WILL NEVER BE MORE FULL, TRUST ME, THIS YEAR EASTER ARRIVES MORE RECHARGELET US TO KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE MONTH, KISSES AND ESSTER WISHES
I connected with the mentality of doing things well, without anything. Sometimes it’s not about being perfect, but about being present. I took the time to organize my space, adjust the lighting, and feel comfortable in front of the camera, because it shows more than many people realize.Something I have learned is that people not only come for the visuals, they also stay for the energy. Today I tried to talk more, connect more, not just wait for things to happen. Say hello, ask how they are, make the room feel alive. It’s a small detail, but it totally changes the dynamic.I was also thinking about improving my shows. Don’t always do the same thing, but vary a little, play with the attitude, with the timing. Sometimes be more relaxed, other times a little more intense. I think that’s the key, not to become predictable.At the end of the day, this is consistency. Some days are better than others, but the important thing is to stay focused and continue to improve little by little. Tomorrow will be another opportunity to do better.
In a world that constantly pushes us to move faster, do more, and be louder, there’s something powerful about growing quietly.Not every success needs to be announced. Not every step forward needs validation. Some of the most meaningful changes happen in silence — when no one is watching, when it’s just you choosing to keep going.Quiet growth is waking up with a better mindset than yesterday. It’s learning from your mistakes without needing to explain them to anyone. It’s choosing peace over drama, discipline over excuses, and patience over pressure.
Big Hank was my secret persona when I was living with my wife and family. Since I came out and started my new life on my own, I stopped everything to figure things out. Now I’m with my partner and made it clear that it would be open relationship. I was very busy with my career and just had no time for social media until I became unemployed for the first time in my life and became desperate on finding sources of income. So now here I am again. I started playing around with TikTok as DaddyUpstairs to see what that was about, then decided I could branch of from there, redirecting my new audience to other platforms. Thus my resurgence’ of Big Hank. I reopened all the archived videos for purchase. Please enjoy and find me at my other locations to see what else I had been up to during my time away from Flirt4Free. Please follow me on TikTok @DaddyUpstairs and my bio will link you to the rest. Thank you to my Fans who have been asking about me over the years and to my new fans I welcome you.